According to Alexa.com, traffic to the biggest free dating site Plentyoffish.com keeps on falling:
In theory, this might be due to an increased usage from mobile phones, which is not reflected in Alexa stats.
However, more likely, this is due to the site itself - nowadays you don't get away that easily with such a poorly (selfmade) website. Markus should invest some money into a new design and better usability - and outsource it instead of trying to do everything himself.